life at first 标准 . but love have no 标准 at all. when a man and a woman have no money, it'd think it should be the same. but no, a woman without money is someone men are expected to provide for, a man without money is someone many women quietly walk away from. after its final heartbreak, can a heart really fall in love a second time? no. a novel may reveal new insights and meanings each time it read it, but its ending never changes. adult life isn't a fairy tale. does it disap