People who think or have an inflated sense of self-importance like they're the "sh*t" and find it amusing to belittle or push others away, even those who supported them through thick and thin, often end up regretting their actions when they're confronted to stop. Unfortunately, sometimes,  it's too late to mend the damage we've caused before realizing our mistakes. Life sometimes doesn't always offer numerous chances to "fix" things or apologize repeatedly. Therefore, when you fudge around and find out later on, the blame falls solely on yourself when we engage in inappropriate behavior and later become aware of its consequences, we have only ourselves to blame.

 

Rather than shying away from accountability for our actions and words, consider this saying from Sandara Bullock: "Not everyone that hurt you cares. Someone said forgiveness let you off the hook. Why would you carry that with you if that person doesn't care? Why would you tainting and infecting with all the amazing moment that could happen in your life with someone that doesn't care how they hurt you? So how do you learned to let them. That take work. It take work." Or another said, "Not everyone who hurts you cares. Forgiveness sets you free. So why carry the burden of someone's hurtful actions if they don't care? Why let them spoil all the amazing moments in your life? Learning to let such people requires effort, but it's a worthwhile endevor."

 

While some may praise a big heart or your compassionate nature, others may need to understand that it's not your responsibility to handle theirs business. Why are you not minding your business but be a Ba 8? Instead of being intrusive and causing trouble, or meddling and being a burden, it's crucial to learn to accept rejection and think before criticizing others. Remember the phrase: "Not your circus, not your clown either" encapsulates the idea of minding your own business, which is more than just words, it takes effort. 

 

In addition, if you find someone is so incredible or admire them, why not you yourself pursue a relationship with them yourself then instead of shipping another when rejected already? It's common advise to be cautious about the company you choose to keep and to surround yourself with positivity. However, it's essential to recognize that the root of negativity might have started with someone else's actions from the beginning. Also, maybe you need to understand the cause can also started with you as well by letting them get to you. Then there are others who called other names each time you addressed something that bothered you, be mindful that you might unintentionally become part of the problem, the dick, the b*tch. So let them.